Isn’t that obvious you say? When it hurts, tap! Apparently it isn’t that clear to everyone. This Russian model and bodyguard didn’t know when to tap, "Former Russian Model Killed in Carjacking", even though she had Jiu-Jitsu experience. There are more factors that play into it. In her case the Porsche was more important then her life. What are the things that hold me back from tapping? Pride has to be number one. I don’t want to be beat. I have to hold out at least long enough that my opponent doesn’t think I’m a push over. Those are the kinds of things I tell myself. I tore my MCL because of that kind of thinking. I changed my philosophy after that to "In a war there are lost battles even on the victors side". I live to fight another day now. I try to make each battle an accumulative learning experience, win or lose. I feel I’m winning the war on most fronts now. But it is far from over. I have often wondered why Helio Gracie refused to tap when he said a technique was not "good technique". I understand that Helio passed out in his fight against Kimura because Kimura was squeezing his ribs and stopping his lungs from expanding. What about when Kimura broke his arm? So I will end this post with this thought, tap when a technique is effective or accept the consequences.